Friday, May 23, 2008

Do realations really mattar?

There were times when neighbors were best pals, when fathers may not have been best of buddies to kids but were certainly respected, when mothers were admired and grandparents were cared for. Have the times changed relationships or have we changed with time?

We have come a long way from where friendship lasted for life and meant the world. remembering the film,YARANA(1981),well what a amazing movie it was,truly relationship bond between two friends who sacrifies life for each other's happiness.



Try playing the movie today and I dare say the movie hall will be largely empty. Most of us would claim that the script is too "filmy".Nope movie today symbolises art of livingmart of maintaining relation etc. I dont mean all movies,but mostly all movies have a "nonsense scripts"."LOVE bein the major topic"..!!

Are we capable of maiantainting relationsships?
Why break ups?
why is that we break up after stable relation ships?
Cant we pair up again?
What do I lack?


Well the first 4 Q'ns may have different answers for different people,but the 5th Q has been the head acheching point.



As a answer to the 5th point i can surely say,"Its nothin more than "TRUST".

If we break a trust,think we are lost,cozz there is nothing great than trust in this world...!!!




This posts sugguests that,if we cant respect relation,dont fall into relation,this is not your field.

But if we really care,love,trust and faith our relation,WE NEED RELATION.

11 comments:

~nm said...

Its true that relations and their meanings have undergone a 360 degree change.

They have become more materialistic and are thought of only in the times of need.

People do not have the patience or the will to "adjust" to each other.

I think I will stop here as its a topic which can be discussed for hours and hours.

And hey, thanks for dropping at my..err..my betu's blog! :)

prajyot said...

thx for ur valuable comment..now a days harld few people care about relationship..its time now that we people care about relationship..!!

IDriSh LAxmIdHAR said...

initially movies were made to inspire people, inspire relationship..

now movies are made inspired from people, and their act..

but we can't compare our lives with movies...they are mere entertainment providers..

it is hard time now that we change our self...but is it the change we require??

i mean, are we not supposed to be that smart creation of the ALMIGHTY, where we have the capability to maintain relationship..??

i guess in this fast growing electronic industry, relationship have become just a fact with no emotions...

i have seen people taking relations for granted...!!!

lets change, against them or with them...!!! the choice is ours...!!!

nice article though!!!

prajyot said...

well idrish..emotions and technology go hand to hand....well technology is need..where as emotions are need of needs..cozz emotions helps us to build relationsship..what i mean by this statement is that,relationship depends on emotions offcource,and in technology relations mean a lot...may it be with CEO or A project manager...!!

IDriSh LAxmIdHAR said...

@ prajyot

with the statement of technology gaining over emotions i meant that ,

people are looking less towards social life and bonding.
i mean tech can be a reason for loss of human emotions...

since we have lotts techie gizmos, people overlook feelings of other human cos they now have a more important and more funnier past time (gizmo)...now having a better companion such as a vedio game or a psp, people stop social activities and emotions attached to relations are lost...

now this could be just a example, the tech and emotion thingy..

there are more areas we can discuss over how emotions are being taken for granted..

such as misunderstanding...!!!!

prajyot said...

well misunderstanding depends on each of us..how we care about the things...but if we dont care,misunderstandings are sure to grow..and if it grows..what affects is TRUST...

once trust is lost,therz nope way where in we can get trust back...

Once lost trust,is lost permanently

IDriSh LAxmIdHAR said...

exactly...i agree...

does it make any sense when we say that out of misunderstanding relationships broken and trust destroyed...

i mean , we here are talking that misunderstanding is the root cause to hampering relationships..

but when we see relations breaking or when we are into such situations, do we convey to our self that there might be "misunderstanding" ????

i don't think so...and when at all, any wise man comes to know about misunderstanding, it is too late...!!!!

my inner world said...

such an honest post about relations. i guess this for every one to read and understand :)

priya said...

A good post indeed:)

happy_smile said...

i truly respect of wat u said prajyot that once trust is lost, its lost permanently... i hav seen ppl who r dishonest to their fellow beings,then d next time evn if that persn tels d truth no1 belives that persn agn...

ishqia said...

good post ... well written